Hello, I’m Ian.

I am a passionately curious individual. I have been pursuing a deeper understanding of the human experience, from how we move to why we feel what we do, for much of my life. I am a self-confessed relationship and neuroscience nerd. I marvel at the discoveries of modern science and am inspired when that science proves the wisdom of ancient traditions.

I have been a Registered Massage Therapist since 1998 and have worked with all manner of people from Olympic athletes to office workers and kids to folks in their 90’s. This experience has given me a profound understanding of our bodies, how they move, and all that affects us. I have also studied and practiced Traditional Chinese Medicine and Acupuncture from 2009 until 2021. This knowledge has given me deep insight into the interdependence of the mind and body. Now, I have taken the plunge into exploring the relational world, and its significant effects on our life, and well being as a Relationship Coach.

It is important for me to take this time to acknowledge that I am living on the unceded territory of the Lekwungen speaking peoples, known today as the Songhees and Esquimalt First Nations. Their care of and for this land, since time immemorial, has allowed me to raise my two daughters here and for that I am grateful. I take joy in exploring the wonders of our island home and its surroundings with my girls.

Ian Abbott

Victoria, BC